It seems to you that you are in the mercy of circumstances and are unable to change them. Actually this is an illusion – illusion that you can easily destroy if you wish.
You can unconsciously move into a close circle: observing reality – expressing attitude – the mirror fixes the content of your attitude into reality. This results in a closed feedback circle: the reality is formed as a reflection of how you think and the image is largely determined by the reflection itself. The principal for reality controlling is that you should revert the circle – to watch yourself in the first place and only after that to look in the mirror.
People are tied to the mirror of their attitude – the primitive reaction to reality, just as a primitive attempt to catch the reflection in an effort to change something in it.
Now, let’s try to revert the mirror circle: express attitude – the mirror fixes the content of the attitude into reality – we observe the reality… What happens?
The primitive and helpless observation of the reflection is discontinued, and the deliberate and intentional observation of the image appears in its place. Instead of being critical to what I saw in the mirror, as I did previously, now I turn back to it and start forming my mind the image I’d like to see. This is the exit of the mirror labyrinth. The world stops and begins to move the way I want it to. When you take control over your attitude to reality, the external intention begins to work, and with it, everything is possible. The only thing you have to do is to transfer your attention onto the image you want, instead to the mirror.