“Transurfing in 78 Days — A Practical Course in Creating Your Own Reality” – Vadim Zeland

Statement

If someone has fallen in love with you, consider it a miracle. Even if the feeling is not mutual, don’t cold-shoulder it. Treat the love shown to you with high regard and treat it very gently. If you think about it, being loved is a miracle. What if this is the last person who will ever fall in love with you? Treasure your love for another in the same way. Don’t let it turn into a dependent relationship. Offering unconditional love, love without demands is the only way of evoking similar feelings in another. Let go of the desire to receive or commandeer. Give your love just for the sake of it, without expecting anything in return and then perhaps a miracle will happen and you will be loved in return.

Interpretation

Imagine yourself standing in front of the mirror of the world. If your image is one of love, then the reflection will be the same. If your image contains the desire for mutual affection, you can forget about seeing mutual love in the reflection. The mirror will simply reflect your vain attempts to be somebody else’s favorite.

When love turns into a dependent relationship, excess potential is created which brings about a kind of energetic ‘pressure drop’. Dependent relationships are created by setting conditions along the lines of, «If you don’t want to marry me you obviously do not love me. If you love me, you are good. If you don’t love me you are bad.» The greater the desire to possess, i.e. to be loved back, the greater the effect of balancing forces which will do anything to spite you. Love, not tied to conditions, is free from possession, avoids dependent relationships and generates creative, positive energy.

Only unconditional love is capable of working the miracle of mutual love.