{"id":18,"date":"2020-05-01T20:55:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-01T20:55:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transurfing.us\/learn\/?p=18"},"modified":"2020-05-02T19:38:46","modified_gmt":"2020-05-02T19:38:46","slug":"lesson-14-loving-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transurfing.us\/learn\/78-days-of-practical-transurfing\/lesson-14-loving-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Lesson 14:  Loving Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"78 Days Practical Transurfing Lesson 14 - Loving Yourself\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1iLbHK3kW-k?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Loving yourself<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you do not love yourself, no one will love you. What\u2019s more you\u2019ll never be happy. Any conflict between the soul and mind negatively affects your appearance and character. Accordingly, the layer of your world becomes colored in increasingly dark shades. Above all you need to love yourself, and just then to note the qualities of others. You need to understand and feel the facts: the pendulums force you to change yourself, to turn your back to your soul and obey the rule: \u201c they are better than you, so do as they do, look like them, sit in the matrix, be a cog.\u201d Actually you are unique. Turn to yourself, accept yourself as you are, and embrace your right to be as you are. Then you will have reason to be proud of yourself and to respect yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Interpretation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If a person has come far in pursuit of standards of others, it will be difficult to love himself\/herself just like that. \u201cHow can I love myself when I do not like myself!?\u201d This is a pure unnecessary potential born from increased internal and external importance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The external importance is in the fact that you think of the standard established by someone else as perfection. Don\u2019t we appreciate to high the dignity of others? The internal significance -forcing myself to follow foreign standards.And who said I am worse than others?Is my self-esteem low?To love yourself, remove the external importance from the pedestal and cease to worship idols. What prevents you from creating your own standards?Let others follow THEM. Throw away the internal importance and relax. Allow yourself the luxury to have shortcomings, shift the focus of your attention on your qualities.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Loving yourself If you do not love yourself, no one will love you. What\u2019s more you\u2019ll never be happy. Any conflict between the soul and mind negatively affects your appearance and character. Accordingly, the layer of your world becomes colored in increasingly dark shades. Above all you need to love yourself, and just then to note the qualities of others. 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