{"id":19,"date":"2020-05-01T21:44:56","date_gmt":"2020-05-01T21:44:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transurfing.us\/learn\/?p=19"},"modified":"2020-05-02T19:38:44","modified_gmt":"2020-05-02T19:38:44","slug":"lesson-11-confidence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transurfing.us\/learn\/78-days-of-practical-transurfing\/lesson-11-confidence\/","title":{"rendered":"Lesson 11: Confidence!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"78 Days Practical Transurfing Lesson 11 Confidence!\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9-SCoooGHTQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>To get confidence, you should quit it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The nature of uncertainty lies in the increased importance of things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Say, <em>\u201cI do not need confidence to support me, because when I don\u2019t have importance, I have nothing to defend and conquer. There is nothing to fear and nothing to worry.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When nothing has excessively important meaning, the layer of my world is clean and transparent. \u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I give up the fight and move down stream the variants. I\u2019m empty and therefore nothing can be taken away from me. I don\u2019t need to fight. I just go on with confidence, and get what belongs to me. This is not wavering confidence but calm and conscious coordination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Interpretation<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Uncertainty creates a vicious circle. The higher the importance of the purpose and desire to achieve it, the greater the uncertainty. The stronger the grip of control over us and over situations, the stronger the rigidity. The greater the worry and anxiety are, the sooner they are justified. Fighting for one\u2019s own significance takes energy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The sense of guilt turns life into wretched existence of a failed person. How to get out of this confusing labyrinth?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t get out \u2013 there\u2019s no exit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-style-large is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>The secret of the labyrinth is that it\u2019s walls will collapse when you stop searching for an exit and when you reduce the importance of things. Give up the fight for your own importance and you will receive it unconditionally.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Stop justifying yourself to others and you will be done with guilt. Similarly, if you reduce the importance of external objects, they will cease to dominate you with their significance. And finally, you will achieve full coordination, when your soul and mind are united.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For this purpose you need to listen to your heart and to live according to its credo\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To get confidence, you should quit it. 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