{"id":594,"date":"2020-05-25T01:20:20","date_gmt":"2020-05-25T01:20:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transurfing.us\/learn\/?p=594"},"modified":"2020-05-25T01:20:31","modified_gmt":"2020-05-25T01:20:31","slug":"lesson-33-the-pendulums-rule","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transurfing.us\/learn\/78-days-of-practical-transurfing\/lesson-33-the-pendulums-rule\/","title":{"rendered":"Lesson 33: The Pendulum&#8217;s Rule"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"The Pendulum&#039;s Rule - Reality Transurfing\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qNNnzMWKMtw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The pendulum rule reads: \u201cDo as I do\u201d which means, change yourself, change yourself and copy the stereotype. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the effort to live up to someone else\u2019s standard of success, people lose themselves and becomes deeply unhappy, because keeping up with all the standards is simply impossible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, don\u2019t do it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t be afraid of breaking the pendulum\u2019s rule. Set your own standards. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those who violate the pendulum\u2019s rule become either leaders or renegades. Some break through to the stars and others turn into outcasts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The difference between the two is that the former act as if they have the total right to break the pendulum\u2019s rule and the latter doubt whether they have the right or not. Claim the right to break the rule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Interpretation<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The pendulum\u2019s rule is what establishes norms of behavior and thinking, the standards of \u2018normality\u2019. People do not understand that they are being offered an ersatz, a surrogate of success. No one individual\u2019s success can serve as a model for others to replicate. <strong>Only people who dare to break the rules and find their own path in life achieve true success. <\/strong>When you follow other people\u2019s example, you are forever doomed to chase the setting sun. Standards of success are a mirage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peo<strong>ple do not realize, or do not want to realize that the pendulum is trapping them in a web of illusion. The illusion is often sweeter, more convenient and clearer than the uncertainty of reality. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the other hand, if you do occupy a certain position within a structure, bear in mind, that you cannot just mindlessly antagonize it. It is not a question of freeing ourselves from pendulums altogether. That would hardly be possible. The most important thing is to avoid being a puppet and act with conscious awareness so that you can use the structure in your own interests. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Strive to set new rules for yourself, without breaking the system\u2019s existing rules.<\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The pendulum rule reads: \u201cDo as I do\u201d which means, change yourself, change yourself and copy the stereotype. 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