{"id":639,"date":"2020-06-19T22:34:20","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T22:34:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transurfing.us\/learn\/?p=639"},"modified":"2020-06-19T22:35:36","modified_gmt":"2020-06-19T22:35:36","slug":"day-34-the-rules-of-transurfing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transurfing.us\/learn\/78-days-of-practical-transurfing\/day-34-the-rules-of-transurfing\/","title":{"rendered":"Day 34: The Rules of Transurfing"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"The Rules of Transurfing\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/FCTaS7GynVo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Discard the pendulum\u2019s rule, &#8220;Do as I do&#8221; and replace it with the Transurfing rule: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-style-large is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><em>&#8220;Give yourself permission to be yourself, and allow others to do the same&#8221;. <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Giving yourself permission to be yourself means accepting yourself, warts and all. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Allowing others to be themselves means withdrawing the expectations you project onto them.<\/strong> This universal rule gives you the chance to find inner freedom and wave good-bye to all sorts of problems that may have plagued your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Interpretation<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>You do not have to worry too much about how the Transurfing rule works. 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